When is it okay to leave a Church?

Leaving a Church is not a simple decision.  Scripture is clear about the importance of unity, and the need to bear with one another.  That said, there are times when we are wise to leave.

Most obviously, one might leave a congregation that ceases teaching Scripture.  Once a church or denomination decides Scripture is not the primary foundation for life and doctrine, they are not following Christ.  At that point the membership should try to correct the situation.  If that fails, they should move to a Biblically sound church.

Less obvious are issues of style and method.  As communities change there is a need for adapting forms while maintaining truth.  No one argues church today is a bit different than it was 100 years ago.  Continued effectiveness in a changing culture requires adaptation.

When this happens, not everyone can or needs to adapt.  One’s gifts and skills may not mesh well with the changing community.  In such cases those feeling left behind should forthrightly discuss the situation with their Pastor and leaders.  Together they should examine the motivations for leaving.  Leaving over simple style differences seems petty, to me.  Certainly the unity of the Spirit demands we put others needs ahead of our own, including areas of style.  But when leaving is strategic–an opportunity to better use gifts and abilities, for example–I think moving on may be good.

In any case, leaving a church should never be done in haste or anger.  All such decisions should be bathed in prayer, filtered through Scripture and accompanied by open, honest discussion with the leadership of the congregation.  Having done so, we can rejoice as God arranges and rearranges His Church to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ.