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Barna on Media Exposure, Addiction: Part III
Scary media – whether that be in the form of slasher films, episodes about demonic possession or other portrayals of the dark side and sick behavior – have become the favorite genre of the Mosaic generation. One noted result is that feelings of fear about one’s environment are reaching record levels, manifested in nightmares, judgment of other people based upon appearance or stereotypes, and changes in daily behavioral routines to avoid scary places.
Okay, one more point I want to make. This one is simple. The fascination with slasher flicks is nothing new. I can remember Friday the 13th movies, Halloween and Nightmare on Elm Street. While a part of this is simply human nature, another part of this growing fascination is a failure of parenting.
“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things,” Philippians 4:8 tells us. Yet, what are these kids consumed with? Violence, fear, pain and all the ‘sick behavior’ of horror flicks. Where they never taught that the Christian is to train their mind to meditate upon the things of God? Have they not been taught that perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:8)? Or that we are not to fear anyone other than God (Matthew 10:28)?
So, simply put, I believe this growing fascination with horror results from 1) the de-Christianization of America and 2) Christian parents failing to disciple their children.
Spare the rod and spoil the child?
From FoxNews:
According to the research, children spanked up to the age of 6 were likely as teenagers to perform better at school and were more likely to carry out volunteer work and to want to go to college than their peers who had never been physically disciplined.
Read the whole thing. It sounds very Proverbs 13:24ish. While it’s only one study, what I found most intriguing is the cut-off of spanking’s benefit. Apparently after six, spanking does more harm then good.
So, when children are unable to reason and discuss their wrongdoing, swatting them seems to reinforce important life lessons. But as they grow in their ability to understand, parents need to move away from corporal punishment. In other words, discipline must be adapted to the maturity of the child. I’d add it needs to be adapted to the child. Not all children are identical, what works for one bears no fruit in another.
Study: Spanked Children May Grow Up to Be Happier, More Successful – Childrens Health – FOXNews.com.