TGC | The Gospel Coalition

My interactions with this guy gave me the feeling of being pursued without the reality of pursuit.

via TGC | The Gospel Coalition.

In the linked article, Rachel Cohen addresses the issue of virtual relationships and the need for real, face-to-face relationship. While she speaks to youth, specifically, I share her concern for the Church at all ages. The proliferation of social media gives us the appearance of relationship with out real relationship. However, God clearly designed us for interpersonal relationships. In fact, authentic discipleship, in my view, cannot be done over the internet. It requires investment in face-t0-face, life-on-life relationships.

What do you think?

Power of Mom’s Voice Silenced by Instant Messages | Wired Science | Wired.com

“IM isn’t really a substitute for in-person or over-the-phone interaction in terms of the hormones released,” said psychologist Leslie Seltzer of the University of Wisconsin, a co-author of the new study. “People still need to interact the way we evolved to interact.”

via Power of Mom’s Voice Silenced by Instant Messages | Wired Science | Wired.com.

As I read this article, I thought, “Of course, we’re social creatures.”  Moreover, we were created for relationship.  In the Genesis creation accounts God says that it is not good for man to be alone.  Clearly we need real, human interaction to fully thrive as humans.

This has some impact for ministry, today.  As we become a more wired culture, we maybe tempted to use more and more tech at the expense of good, old fashioned, face-to-face relationship.  Resist the temptation!  While tech may strengthen ministry, it cannot ever replace in-person interaction.